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Every parent would happily give up ever scolding, punishing or threatening if she only knew how to ensure that her toddler/child/teen would thrive and act responsibly without such painful measures. Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves is the answer to this universal wish. It is not about gentle ways to control a child, but about a way of being and of understanding a child so she/he can be the best of herself, not because she fears you, but because she wants to, of her own free will.
“Aldort’s book should be on the must read list of all Moms and Dads. This book could carry a subtitle: “Saving the Emotional Lives of Our Children and The Future of Humanity.”"
- James Prescott, Ph.D. Institute of Humanistic Science
“Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves operates on the radical premise that neither child nor parent must dominate; it is for those who want to give up scolding, threatening and punishing. Her SALVE “formula” alone is worth the price of the book.” – Peggy O’Mara Editor and Publisher of Mothering
“Every once in awhile, a writer comes along who is comfortable speaking the truth, no matter how much it might challenge us or make us uncomfortable. Naomi Aldort is one of those people. In Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves, Naomi Aldort takes the struggle out of parenting and replaces controlling and shaping style of parenting with one that values, trusts and nurtures children’s innate abilities and autonomy.”
– Wendy Priesnitz Editor of Life Learning magazine, author of School Free and Challenging Assumptions in Education
“In this stunning insight into human nature, Naomi Aldort opens a window into harmonious family living. This book should to be widely read and not just by parents but by every being who strives for a more peaceful world.”
– Veronika Robinson, Editor of The Mother magazine, UK
Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves: Transforming parent-child relationships from reaction and struggle to freedom, power and joy
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Aldort’s book is far enough outside the accepted norm for parenting that I wish she had spent more time in the text making the TRANSLATION between what people CURRENTLY practice and what she is INVITING them to practice. There is too much wisdom here for her to be dismissed because her perspective is so different from traditional approaches.
Apart from this criticism, however, the book is quite readable and what she recommends operationalizes for parents in modern times (among other things)the “turn the other cheek” sensibility of ancient wisdom.
Rating: 4 / 5
Very good book with focus on communication and relationship which nurturing child personality and dignity. Almost al “theoretical” explanations are provided with some examples. The underlined logic present in explanations are so acceptable.
I’m indeed interested in Montessori education. On some Montessori forum recommended this book. It’s really very, very god book!
Rating: 5 / 5
I have always thought of myself as a patient person, until I had children. This book gives great advise on raising children, and also learning about yourself!!
Rating: 4 / 5
…you take what is reasonable for you and your family and discard the stuff that is not. It flows along the lines of attachment parenting, Easy to Love; Difficult to Discipline type of thinking. I found many parts useful and enlightening AND there were parts where I found myself thinking “do what??” So, as with everything else; use it as a guideline, not a bible.
Rating: 4 / 5
This book provides the thoughtful parent with the opportunity to transform your relationship with your child of any age. I am so happy that I have had the chance to change how I interact with my daughter for the BETTER!
Rating: 5 / 5
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